If people can choose to walk away from you, let them walk. Don’t feel sorry that they decided.. Respect that. If they can choose to walk away.. Kiss them goodbye. Period. You got to understand that folks have an expiry date. Any mortal being expires, it’s for you to savvy when it’s their expiry season. Not everyone is gonna stick with you till the end. Not everyone is meant to stay. You need to espouse their obstinate choice.
This might sound a bit crazy but if a person wakes up and turn their backs on you, smile and wave them bye. You need to work assiduously to gather the courage to let them go. I believe if someone realises the role you play in their lives they wouldn’t sunder the attachment. If they care, if they see the end from your perspective they wouldn’t have opted to relinquish in the first place.
We live in a world where we care about what others will say if they find out. We live in times of trepidation. You got to be strong and true to yourself. You need to realize your worth. Why waste time begging a friend, inamorato or inamorata to stay? If they needed you they would have chosen to stay anyway. Understand the rule of cessation. When someone leaves it’s because of one reason, they are still searching for greener pastures. Wish them luck.
Don’t stress regretting for trusting them, don’t worry when things crack in your hands , that’s how light gets in. Heartbroken? Believe me there’s is nothing like a heart break, I came to realize it’s all in the mind. It’s an illusion tragedy we claim to ourselves. There’s nothing like someone leaving a hole in your heart,haha,I mean stop lying to yourself. Stop falsifying things. Heart break is a phantom. Nobody breaks your heart.
We feel pain when we lose our loved ones, that’s natural. However, it’s unnatural not to move on after the loss. It’s childish to cry over the dead over and over. It’s glaikit, wacky and worst of all nonsense. Don’t cry for the dead forever , burry them. Let them go. Let them be.
You deserve someone who will forever be afraid of losing you. Anyone who’s not afraid of letting you go doesn’t know your worth. Don’t welcome them back, the same way we don’t hug ghosts. Their role in our lives is over when they vacate. Hang up when they call trying to find out if you have moved on.
Be merry. Your destiny is not attached to those who choose to hurt you. It’s not your fault they dashed out of your cycle. The world is full of amazing people. You are your own happiness. You realize you agonize your life by not accepting simple life games. Accept no as an answer. Embrace it’s over as the beginning of being verisimilitude and nicer to yourself. Allowing people who left to come back to your life gives them a reason to disrespect you. They tend to think you will never move on.
Let them know you have had enough, stop the hustle, stop begging. Bending low twice or more is a sign of desperation. If they choose to walk away, let them walk.